CALLED TO CARE
Kirsty is a 17-year-old college student. She
has just discovered she is pregnant. Her parents and boyfriend are
urging her to have an abortion but she’s uncomfortable with the idea.
Lisa was viciously gang-raped. Her attackers were
charged, but the post-traumatic stress she was suffering blanked out
some of the memories and she was labelled in court as an ‘unreliable
witness’. The case was dismissed.
Gareth was brought up by a loving but
over-protective and over-anxious mother. He became insecure, dependant,
a victim of bullying and developed depression. He still struggles with
these characteristics 40 years later.
These are real people with real problems -
individuals who wouldn’t normally think of seeking help in Church, but
who have come to Cedar House Counselling Centre, a facility provided by
local Christians as a way of serving the people of our city. Cedar House
is based on the belief that Christians are called to get out of the
Churches and their comfort zones to bring the love of God to the folk
around us in a practical and relevant way.
Cedar House was opened in 1998 in a small house on
Mount Street in the centre of Preston. At first it was only open a few
hours a week, with a small team offering help and support to women and
girls facing the trauma of an unplanned pregnancy. Twelve years later,
60 volunteers offer counselling by trained and qualified counsellors to
men and women facing a huge range of difficult life issues. Referrals
come from GPs, hospitals, the police and many other local agencies
and Cedar House has been described by a mental health practitioner
as the ‘main provider of counselling in Preston’. Hundreds of clients
are helped and about 2,500 appointments have been offered annually in
recent years.
It’s a real privilege to be able to see change and
hope coming into clients’ lives and to be able to demonstrate to the
people of Preston that the Christian Church is relevant to 21st
century life. Of course we don’t ram our faith down their throats and
some clients will never know that we are a Christian organisation – but
many comment on the peaceful and homely atmosphere and we are always
happy to talk about spiritual issues with clients who so choose.
But life is full of challenges for us at Cedar
House. In this increasingly stressful and fractured society, there are
more people seeking help than we can cope with and sometimes we have to
turn folk away. If we were to be able to meet more of the needs out
there, we would need more space, more volunteers and, of course, much
more financial support. At the moment we receive no input from outside
the Christian community, despite repeated attempts to involve the
Primary Care Trust, whose patients are constantly being referred to us.
Our faith in God, who we believe called this
service into being, has kept us going through many years and many
challenges. He has equipped us to do things we thought were beyond us
and has constantly provided for all our needs. Last year it took £20,000
to keep Cedar House up and running and we balanced the books with £26 to
spare!
Back in 1998, when we were working to set up this
project, two Bible passages became very significant to us. Firstly
Jesus’ parable of the sheep and the goats – ‘….I was hungry and you gave
me something to eat, thirsty and you gave me something to drink…’. (Matt
25:35) Also God’s charge to Joshua, ‘Be strong and courageous. Do not be
terrified, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you
wherever you go.’ (Josh 1:9) There is no doubt that God calls his people
to care for those with all kinds of needs and to show that care in
tangible, practical ways. And he didn’t say it would be easy – far from
it! But he did promise that he would stand with us and equip us for the
task.
So if you would like to be
involved in the work at Cedar House or know more about it, do contact us
or take a look at our website – www.cedar-house.eu. We need qualified
counsellors, volunteers to be involved in administrative tasks and
answering the telephone, plus as much financial and prayer support as
possible. We would love to chat to you about what we do, so feel free to
call us at the centre on 01772 880909 or phone Hazel Sewell on 01772
690266.
(The clients are real, but details changed to
preserve confidentiality.)
Hazel Sewell